There are several reasons why one should not quit fighting for his or her dream. Some of these reasons are negotiable while others are not. One of the reason that cannot be negotiated, in my view, is the one that has to do with to the need to take one’s family and loved ones out of poverty.
You see, the need to give my family an opportunity to enjoy the good life is one reason why I am holding on tightly and fighting for my dreams. It has always been and still is my major success drive.
I am shedding more light on this key success drive with you today because I recently listened to a motivational message ( something that has become a ritual) by Nate Obryant that gave me a different perspective or understanding on it.
It actually awoken me to the need to work harder than I am currently doing. He said something that has become my greatest motivational quote this year. He said;
If you are not grinding day and night to take your family out of poverty, you are being selfish.
In other words, if I am not doing whatever it takes to get my family as well as those whose lives are connected to calling from poverty or whatever it’s that is holding them back from enjoying the good life, I am being selfish.
This is one of the most profound words I have heard in a long while. I quickly wrote it down to serve as a reminder and a trigger when my battery runs low. It is also to keep me committed to my mission to unleash 10 million dreams. It has become a great motivational trigger in winning thinking tool-kit.
Your Family Deserves It
I believe strongly you are part of that 10 million dreams and as such you deserve to here this message. More importantly, your family deserves to enjoy the fruitfulness of your dreams.
I therefore decided to share the strategies that I use to optimize motivational messages quotes with you. By optimising, I simply mean being able to tap into powerful messages to recharge your batteries and drive yourself to take massive actions.
My dear winner, if you have not really thought of what selfishness means, then this is what it truly means as far as not taking your dreams seriously is concerned.
Sitting on your butts when you are supposed to be out there grinding for you family and loved ones is a selfish act. No matter where you are in life right now, it applies to you.

Don’t say; “for me I am just a student or I am not yet working so it does not apply to me”. My dear, it does, and here are two reasons;
- Firstly, if someone is grinding day and night to provide for your tuition, you owe it to that person to grind every day and night to bring home good grades.
- Additionally, you owe it to them to finish hard and build a good life so you can take care of them.
You got the gist huh? Okay, here is more;
- If you are not doing whatever it take now as a student, employee, business person or entrepreneur to bring lasting positive changes into your own life and that of your parents, children, siblings, clients, customers etc, you are being selfish.
- If you are not valuing your family’s effort, love, affection, prayers as well as your own duty to bring lasting joy and satisfaction to them, you are being selfish.
Well, I don’t mean to sound hash. But this is utmost truth. You have gifts and talents deposited in you. You have a Great God who is on your side.
You have wonderful family members who are with physically and spiritually. And you think not giving your all each passing day just to make them happy is not selfishness? It is my dear.
Here are some tips to help you optimise this message:
- Take a note book or a journal and write the names of individuals whose lives mean a lot to you.
- Write down five reasons why you need to bring positive changes into their lives.
- Write down five reasons why you can’t afford to settle for mediocrity.
- Write down five reasons why you cannot continue being selfish.
- Write what I call statement of action and commitment agreement. This an agreement with yourself that you will do whatever it takes to give your family and loved ones the opportunity to have a taste of the Good-life.
- Finally, sign the agreement and post on a wall at home and / or office so you can see and read at will.
Don’t take these strategies lightly, especially the state of action and commitment agreement ( it’s an insider tip). That alone can change your life forever. It will help you stay in the game of life for the right reasons. And also, it’s a means to standing for your LOVE.
Yeah, it’s only love that can drive you to stay committed to your dreams, doing whatever it takes, to make them come to pass so your family can get to enjoy the Good-life.
Remember: You deserve the good life! You deserve to be at the top! You deserve to be happy! You are chosen for greatness! YOU’RE TRULY BORN TO WIN!
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